Is Your Child Addicted And Not Caring For Their Child? Consider Adopting Them

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Is Your Child Addicted And Not Caring For Their Child? Consider Adopting Them

31 May 2019
 Categories: Relationships & Family, Blog


For years, you've watched your child mature and become an adult only to see them fall a victim to the dangers of addiction. Sadly, they have a child who you are worried is not getting the care and attention that they deserve. In this situation, you may want to adopt the child to provide them with the care and attention that they need to become a happy and healthy person.

Addiction Impacts a Child in Many Ways

When a parent suffers from addiction like your child is experiencing, they are not going to be the same person they were before drugs took hold. For example, they may ignore their parental duties or try to foster them off on others. Some may even end up abusing their child on purpose or with negligence.

Even worse, parents who abuse drugs create an example for their children that can be very negative. For example, a child may see their parents shooting heroin and find themselves interested in the same activities later. Some children may even start committing crimes if they see their parents doing the same. Thankfully, you can reverse this problem by taking care of the child yourself.

Adoption May Save Them

If your child is suffering from addiction and can't quite handle caring for their child, you should seriously consider asking for custody of the child and adopting them. Taking a child out of this bad environment can provide them with the chance to escape the potential of abuse and future drug use.

Talk to your child and let them know how concerned you are about the situation and how you are willing to help them. Many people trying to overcome addiction will need the chance to focus on themselves and will likely work better if they aren't so worried about the care of their child.

Just as importantly, you can adopt the child to keep them out of the care of CPS and keep the child close to the family. In this way, you can take the child to visit their parent during rehab and, if the parent finally recovers from addiction, you can give them custody of their child again.

So if you want to help your grandchild get out of the danger of their parent's addiction and are ready to adopt, talk to your child and a few adoption agencies to see what you can do. In many cases, this type of adoption is easier than trying to get a child that is not in the family and is usually preferred by the courts.